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Cultural Encounters on the Basketball Court: A Story of Inclusion and Rejection

Filipino Life Near Hsinchu Science Park

Near Hsinchu Science Park, there are several communities where many Filipino workers live. Most of them work for semiconductor manufacturers in the Science Park. I used to be part of one of those companies, so I know that these workers are well-educated and speak excellent English. That’s why many tech companies choose to recruit them to work in fabs, unlike caregivers who typically have fewer educational requirements.

They usually work in rotating shifts and often hang out together—shopping or playing basketball in groups.

Now, I’m not sure if all Filipino men love playing basketball, but the ones living near my community certainly do. You’ll often see them playing at the local junior high school—early in the morning or in the evening—always in groups.

One day, I saw a teenager watching them play for a while. Then, he politely walked up to one of the players and asked in English, “May I play with you?” But the man didn’t respond directly. Instead, he turned to speak in his own language with the others. I couldn’t understand what they were saying, but from the body language, it seemed like the decision was to ignore the boy. The man simply kept playing, as if nothing had happened. The teenager stood there quietly, clearly disappointed. He murmured, “Why won’t they play with me?”

That moment reminded me of a similar situation. Another man had once tried to join them, only to be ignored as well. He later told me they didn’t like people from other countries joining their games.

So, I said to the teenager, “You were really brave to ask. It’s not your fault they didn’t say yes. That’s their choice—not a reflection on you.”

Language and Connection on a Working Holiday

A few years ago, I spent several months working in Australia on a Working Holiday Visa (WHV). There, I met people from all over the world—including other Taiwanese.

Every time I met someone from Taiwan, I felt a warm, familiar emotion rise in my heart. You probably know what I mean—it’s that moment of loneliness, when you’re far from home and suddenly meet someone who speaks your language and understands your feelings. That shared connection means a lot.

Over time, I noticed something interesting.

Those who weren’t confident in their English tended to stick close to me, often speaking Chinese. But those who were fluent in English usually preferred to go solo. They spent more time with foreign friends and embraced local life more fully. To them, I was just one of many friends they met while traveling.

Comfort Zone

People naturally tend to stay in their comfort zones, especially in a foreign country. And honestly—I get it. It’s about safety, security, and a sense of belonging.

But in the long run, sticking only to people from your own background—those who speak the same language and share the same culture—can limit your growth. You might miss out on opportunities to learn a new language, understand new perspectives, and truly connect with local communities. We’re social beings. But if we never step outside our comfort zones, we may never discover the other social circles that could expand our world and help us live a broader, richer life.

Bottom Line

So if you’ve been feeling a little stuck in your comfort zone, don’t worry—you’re not alone. We all start somewhere, and sometimes all it takes is just one small, brave step. Maybe that’s saying “Hi” to someone new, joining a group you’re curious about, or simply being open to a different perspective.

And, I’m here for you on that journey.

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Let’s explore the world beyond our comfort zones, together. One gentle step at a time!